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Positive reinforcement, words of praise vs. acknowledgment

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At a recent MGOL training workshop in Indiana, a discussion on the effect of praise was started.

Apparently, according to the HighScope curriculum, praise can be harmful. In a 2011 resource guide (ReSource2011.12winter_72-1.pdf):

“Many well-intentioned teachers have used praise to improve children’s self-esteem and self-image, but the outcome can be just the opposite. Research from the field supports this conclusion. Alfie Kohn (1999), noted author of Punished by Rewards: The Trouble With Gold Stars, Incentive Plans, A’s, Praise, and Other Bribes, explains the potential damage to children when adults use praise. Children learn to depend on adults for figuring out what is right or wrong, instead of developing this ability themselves. Rather than rely on their intrinsic motivation to learn, learning or “performing” is done in order to please others. Children lose the interest and ability to work and learn on their own. By contrast, children who can evaluate their own performance with encouraging feedback from interested adults remain involved. Moreover, they are self-correcting, that is, they can ask questions of themselves and work to solve problems on their own. Learning is inherently satisfying. Furthermore, “praise” implies judgment. Preschoolers know that if you can judge them favorably, you can also judge them unfavorably. Exploring or trying something new might result in “failure” from the adult’s perspective, so children stick with what is safe and has earned them praise before.”

In the context of Mother Goose on the Loose, this would mean that when children hit “STOP” on the drum, rather than responding with positive words (“fantastic, wonderful, marvelous, etc.”) a better response would be something that acknowledges their achievement by describing it rather than judging it, i.e. “You hit the drum!” (said enthusiastically with a smile), “You hit loudly!”, or even simply, “Bang!”

What do you think about this?  I am going to do some research to find out more about this intriguing concept, but I would love to have an online discussion with comments from those who are familiar with the theory and have used it, to those people who have had experiences with praise. Since it is difficult to post comments on this blog due to the large amount of spam that is consistently being filtered out, please add your comments to Mother Goose on the Loose’s Facebook fan page.

I’m always happy to learn new things and am very curious to find out more about this. So, please join in the discussion and share your comments!

Thanks!

Betsy

Mother Goose on the Loose is “a typical public library program for babies, parents, and caregivers”

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A survey sent out by the ALSC Early Childhood Programs and Services Committee (ECPS) contained questions regarding current efforts by public libraries to serve parents/caregivers and their babies.  Although responses showed that programs varied significantly in frequency, attendance, and length, in a recent article in Children and Libraries, the following quote was used to “best exemplify the typical public library program for babies, parents and caregivers:

We hold Mother Goose on the Loose once a week.  It is a drop-in program usually attended by ten to fifteen babies and at least one parent/caregiver per child. The purpose is to increase early literacy and social skills in a relaxed, fun environment and to model and teach methods, activities, songs, and rhymes for parents/caregivers.” (Nemec 2011, 20)

Check it out at: Nemec, Jenna. “It’s (Still) Never Too Early to Start!” Children and Libraries 9:3, Winter 2011, 15-21.

Knee Bounces – are they safe?

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Yesterday, a listserv for public librarians questioned  the safety of knee bounces.  My response was this:

When I was in Oakland, California presenting a training workshop, one of the participants spoke about this. She said that she worked with teen moms and many of them were surprised that she was doing knee bounces because they heard all about “Shaken Baby Syndrome” and were afraid to bounce their babies and cause permanent damage. The woman at my workshop said that these women were missing out on important physical contact with their babies because of their unfounded worries. She spoke with them about the importance of a steady beat, of positive physical contact, and of the delight that children feel when being bounced on their parents knees.

According the Website of the National Center on Shaken Baby Syndrome (http://www.dontshake.org/sbs.php?topNavID=3&subNavID=24)

“…Parents usually call after a well-meaning relative or friend has cautioned them regarding such activities as using an infant swing, tossing a child in the air or bouncing a baby on the caregiver’s knee. These callers are reassured once a staff member from the National Center explains SBS/AHT and the violence necessary to cause it.

The National Center and its International Advisory Board issues this position statement on the relationship between shaken baby syndrome and normal affectionate handling or innocent play activities:

Shaken baby syndrome, which may result in severe brain trauma, is caused when a child is violently shaken such that the head is subjected to back and forth motion in one or more directions resulting in rapid repeated severe acceleration and deceleration of the head. The medical literature and ongoing research around the world have characterized shaken baby syndrome as well as other forms of accidental and non-accidental injury. Activities involving an infant or a child such as tossing in the air, bouncing on the knee, placing a child in an infant swing or jogging with them in a back pack, do not cause the brain, bone, and eye injuries characteristic of shaken baby syndrome. 
The National Center on Shaken Baby Syndrome recognizes and supports positions offered by The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) and the National Association of Medical Examiners (NAME) in reference to the mechanisms that cause shaken baby syndrome. The forces required are distinctly different than those sustained by children in the activities described above or in short falls.”

In addition to not being harmful, knee bounces provide a way for the child to have positive physical interaction with his or her caregiver. Knee bouncing is fun, joyous. Plus, children feel the steady beat with their entire body; they are learning through hearing the rhymes and feeling the bounce at the same time. The beat reminds them of their mother’s heartbeat when they were still in the womb and is generally comforting. The combination of feeling the beat, hearing the beat, and experiencing physical closeness in a fun way with a person they love helps to reinforce positive emotions.

When running a lapsit program for toddlers, it is often obvious that as soon as the knee bounces start, the kids who were all over the room exploring will return to their adult in order to enjoy the knee bouncing activities.

Here is one explanation of the benefits of knee bouncing from the “Introduction to the Kodály Philosophy website:

The interaction between adult and child in these games is irreplaceable. In this modern world however, life moves at a very fast pace and there is a temptation for carers to sit children in bouncy chairs and swings and surround them with colourful toys or the television. Of course the bright colours and fast movements will keep the child’s attention but there is no substitute for INTERACTION. Time spent in these early stages is an investment in the future.”

MGOL is at the Piedmont Library

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Rhonda Turley at the Piedmont Library in Oklahoma wrote:

I held my first weekly Mother Goose on the Loose program last week.  I had 6 kids and their grownups, and received unsolicited hugs from 5 out of 6 kids.  Not a bad rate of return!  It was lots of fun, and I think it will grow quickly via word of mouth.

When I asked Rhonda if I could post her comments, she added more:

I would be delighted it you posted my comments on your blog!  I’m having a wonderful time doing the MGOL program…it’s incredibly easy from a program planning perspective, and the children are responding well.  I love to see the delight on their faces when we’re doing knee bounces and tickles!

I love hearing from MGOL presenters.  Please keep your emails coming!

Betsy

Monkey Business

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I received an email recently asking about my use of puppet monkeys in the MGOL program. Below are excerpts from the conversation:


I am about to begin my first MGOL session at my library in Connecticut.  I am unable to remember what I am supposed to do with the two identical monkey puppets from folkmanis.  I remember that they are used to kiss the kids but I don’t remember where this fits into the program.  I need your  help
!

Do you know the rhyme “Two Little Monkeys jumping on the bed. One fell off and bumped his head. The other called the doctor and the doctor said, “No more monkeys jumping on the bed!”?
Well, I do this rhyme first with my hands. Most kids and parents know it so they join along. Then I pull out the puppets and introduce them to the kids. As I am putting them on my hands, I tell the kids to pretend that they have monkey puppets on their hands too and to say the rhyme along with me once again. We do that.
Then, the monkeys talk to each other and say, “These children did such a wonderful job reciting our rhyme, let’s give them each a monkey kiss!” That’s when I walk around the inside of the circle, giving each willing child a kiss from the monkeys (each monkey lightly brushes them on a different cheek at the same time, almost making a “kiss sandwich”).
Please feel free to ask any more questions and let me know how your MGOL session goes.

Betsy